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GOD'S LOVE LETTER - The Book of Esther Pt 2 - The Providence of God

2011-06-27T22:59:00.000-07:00

Definition - From the word 'provide'/ carefully preparing for future needs/ wise economical use of resources/ so lucky that it seems planned in advance by a greater power/ a caring force providing for mankind/ a perpetual evolution of good results in our lives no matter what happens to us.

Scripture - Romans 8:28 - 39

1. Have your eyes been opened to the providence of God on your life?

Flavel - "He who observes providence will never be long without providence to observe"
God's people were in distress, BUT wisdom can bring good out of evil, "even as a chemist distills healing drugs from poisonous plants".
You have to stand before you can walk, eg, baby to toddler -
Romans 5:2, "We have access by faith into this grace in which we now STAND"
2 Corinthians 5:7, "Walk by faith, not by sight"
Seeing and experiencing GRACE = providence gives you the confidence to walk by faith when you are in distress until providence breaks your way!

2. Where has life positioned you in this season?

That is the providence of God - ask Him to open your eyes to it.
You may prefer a different position or circumstance but serve God where you are and see what happens.
God has his AGENTS (you) hidden in fitting places for doing his work - sometimes you're a lamp hanging in a dark place - shine there.
Providence doesn't mean God does it all and you do nothing.
He calls us to be active - Esther 4:14, "If you remain silent, deliverance will arise from another place"
God's methods are men.
Note that prayer and fasting featured prominently in this story.

3. God in His providence lets His people go through trials:

We are sons and daughters, not bastards - Good parents discipline sinful children.
Even Esther has to 'risk death' in approaching the king.
If you have a high position, it's not for ease but for purpose.
Gold isn't known as real gold until after it is tested in the crucible.
God is able to test us in the fire (with a peaceful heart) because He knows that the metal He has made us from CAN ENDURE and pass the test and be transformed into what He made us to be by being in the fire.
The wicked carry within them the weapons of their own destruction.
Haman, in his HASTE to do evil to Mordecai, built the gallows and rushed in too early after the kings disturbing sleep, and is asked the fatal question.
Million to one chance that the king should end up reading the story of Mordecai the night before his intended hanging.

Conclusion:

God's wisdom is seen - when you look back on your life since salvation and see His design.
Rejoice that your God sits on the throne.
Rejoice that in the end the Lord achieves total defeat of His foes and total safety and sustenance for His people.

God's Love Letter - The Book of Esther

2011-05-30T19:12:00.000-07:00

A Jewish heroine saves Israel from extermination by their enemies. Her success comes because of:
1. A great love for God.
2. A genuine love for her people.
3. A humble respect for authority.
4. A good relationship with a foreign king.

Sometimes your work is not in the centre of your church or your nation but at the heart of some foreign regime - but it's there God has work for you.
A Jewish orphan in exile becomes Queen of Persia and foils a plot to exterminate the Jews.

Esther 1:10-12; 2:2-4, 7-8, 11-12, 17, 19-20, 22, 23; 3;1, 2, 5, 6, 10, 13, 14; 4:8, 9, 10-17, 5:2-4, 6-8, 9-14; 6:1, 3-14; 9:17b; 10:3.

Destiny: "For such a time as this"
- The privilege God entrusts you with in allowing you to contribute to His Kingdom purpose on the earth.
- Esther 4:13-14

His faith and confidence in God's rescue
A reminder - your favour from God is not just for your own comfort.
There is a privileged purpose (destiny, opportunity) that goes with it.

You: "You have come into the kingdom for such a time as this"

The church is good for you - but are you good for the church?
Can it be built on your faithfulness and grow from your fruitfulness?
There is something for each believer to do - a work which can't be delegated to others.

The ship of your life - is it wrecked before it leaves the harbour?

Are you living your agenda for God, or God's agenda for you?
Do you separate your interests from God?
Are you in the same vessel which carries your Lord and His disciples or have you constructed your own life, your own vessel, your own goals, separate from Him?
You can't create a heaven for yourself - you will fail, your boat will be wrecked, you will be lost.
Break that chain of selfishness that keeps you in slavery.
Come to God - live unto Him, love others, let Him prepare an estate for you. Don't set your own, apart from Him and His cause.
Win the victory over sin or it wins the victory over you. Serve God, not sin.

What have your ancestors left you with?
What will you leave yours with? - neglect? treasure?

You are in the body of Christ for such a time as this.

We've been lifted from the scrap heap and set among princes.
But you're not the proprietor of what you have amassed - your the steward.
You will have to give an account to God of your life - what was it used for?

You may have been raised out of poverty into comparative wealth.

Like Esther, a position you never dreamed of.
For such a time as this.
He does not bless the hand for the hands sake, but for the sake of the entire body.

A foster child became Queen.
You are the key to a lock which no other key can open.

In God - you have a whole new capacity beyond what you thought you were capable of.
"Here and I, send me."

Conclusion:

Be confident, you are safe.
It looked so grim for Mordecai - he and his people - an irrevocable edict to destroy them.
It looked grim for Esther - losing her loved ones at a young age.
Yet in the face of death, she put her key in the lock God showed her and it worked - and saved her people. What an Ancestor!

The First Christmas Carols

2010-12-20T21:41:00.000-08:00

^{Luke 8:2-80-20}
⁸ And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. ⁹ An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. ¹⁰ But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. ¹¹ Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. ¹² This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”
¹³ Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,
¹⁴ “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”
¹⁵ When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”
¹⁶ So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. ¹⁷ When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, ¹⁸ and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. ¹⁹ But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. ²⁰ The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.

"They gained the highest notes, on the divine scale of praise" for the highest act of His Godhead.

Angels
They said of this salvation:
            a) It gave glory to God
            b) It gave peace to man
            c) It was a token of God's good will toward the human race

1. The worth of salvation is God's highest glory.
       a) "The angels in heaven rejoice over one sinner who repents"
       b) There is more melody in 'Jesus in the manger' than in anything else we have
            experienced on earth.
       c) Power is at it's strength when it can conceal power - the power of a divine God as a
           helpless infant.
       d) When angels sing they glorify God, not man.
            The Gospel never glorifies man or his effort to get to God, it glorifies God's effort to
            touch mankind (and it glorifies the Message, not the proclaimer). Put the glory wholly and
          solely upon Christ, not man.
        e) A new song is heard - "On earth peace".
            The manger represented a new peace treaty between man and God, between our
            conscience and us.
            The sacred peace between the pardoned soul and God the pardoner.
            We need "the peace which surpasses all understanding and guards over our hearts
            and minds in Jesus Christ".

2. Christianity was never designed to make our pleasure less, or rip off our joy.
          It teaches us to seek some pleasures differently or to replace some base pleasures with
         Godly ones, but it than makes up for anything that gets taken away.
          Love, joy, peace, kindness, contentment instead of selfishness, striving, judging, hating,
          hurting.
       a) One of the first things the Holy Spirit teaches or delivers to you is a cheerful disposition
          - don't be ashamed to feel gladness and joy.
          We sing in church because we enjoy God and He enjoys us.
       b) When we sang today, we kept Christmas as the Angels did - "Peace on earth and glory to
         God". Peace in your heart, peace with yourself, peace with each other AND peace with
         God".
          When God has become your peace good will to all men flows out.
          Have peace with the giver and their gift to you will be acceptable, it's not about the gift but
          the connection.
          No goodwill equals a lousy Christmas.

Wishing you a merry Christmas, it's there to be found.

God's Love Letter

2010-11-08T22:00:00.000-08:00

Pastor Mark Zaia has begun teaching a 10 part series called “GOD’S LOVE LETTER”.

1 or 2 messages will be preached from each of the 10 categories in the chart below, which breaks down all the books of the bible into different groupings.

Part One in the series: “The Gospel in Genesis”

This has 2 messages: A. Your reasoning versus God’s revelation

B. Hiding behind trees versus life as God’s friend.

Part One A – Your reasoning versus God’s revelation

The first five books of the bible are under the category of “the law”.

The purpose of the law, according to Romans 3:20, is to show us that we are sinners so that we understand our need for God. It is not to be used for the purpose of condemning other people – Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus…”

The book of Genesis declares God as creator of the world and the human race. It shows that man in his free will is a sinner. Even after the destruction of the world by flood God gives us a fresh start but man still ends back in a sinful place by ignoring God’s command to scatter and populate the earth. Instead men want to establish their own fame by building a tower that reaches to the heavens, (see Genesis Chapter 11).

In the book of Exodus, meaning departure, Israel demonstrates to us that to leave the slavery of our lives we need to go on a journey of faith where we learn to trust God by leaving our past bondages behind.

The book of Leviticus provides regulations for worshipping God and introduces the concept of “loving thy neighbor as thyself” (Leviticus 19:18 “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.”)

The book of Numbers shows us that in their unbelief Israel spent 40 years in the wilderness instead of the 4 weeks that the journey could have taken.

The book of Deuteronomy prepares Israel for the Promised Land and the coming battles of getting established in a new land. It also demonstrates the importance if reviewing your commitment to God before taking on a battle.

Pause and think on this

Christianity has a valid case; it is intellectually dishonest to not study the Bible and its claims. When studying, focus on looking for grounds to believe God and not for grounds to disbelieve. There is redemptive life in every person that Christ wants to touch to draw out of them who He created them to be.

The bible gives us reasons why…

Life is difficult, marriages break up, children get abused and people suffer, but the bible tells us how we can have beauty, enjoyment and fulfillment in the midst of our difficult lives and in a world that is going the wrong way. It doesn’t promise us we will avoid suffering but, if we believe, it does promise the presence of Christ in our trials with us.

The issue: Man uses his own reasoning and exalts it above believing what God has said.

We listen to a person’s voices rather than listening to God’s; Adam did, Eve did, Cain did, we undervalue God’s voice. Even Noah, a righteous man, got drunk; Esau undervalued what He had in God and sold it to Jacob for much less than it was worth.

You and I regularly do the same. That’s why we need short accounts with God in daily prayer to keep us on track.

Saint Augustine said, “God isn’t on trial, you are.” Let Jesus be your lawyer. The devil challenges God’s morality, God challenges your morality “God, you have made us for yourself and our souls are restless, until we find rest in you.”

Picking fruit is better than earning bread

The law fixes and establishes sin so that we can be forgiven not condemned. I asked God, “why do you do this?” – “Because Mark, I want to lead you back to paradise. It’s the garden in reverse, the first Adam led you away from Paradise, and Christ wants to lead you back.”

Untie The Donkey - By Lotty

2010-09-22T18:47:00.000-07:00

Luke 19:28-40 (NLT)
Jesus went on toward Jerusalem, walking ahead of his disciples. ²⁹ As he came to the towns of Bethphage and Bethany on the Mount of Olives, he sent two disciples ahead. ³⁰ “Go into that village over there,” he told them. “As you enter it, you will see a young donkey tied there that no one has ever ridden. Untie it and bring it here. ³¹ If anyone asks, ‘Why are you untying that colt?’ just say, ‘The Lord needs it.’”
³² So they went and found the colt, just as Jesus had said. ³³ And sure enough, as they were untying it, the owners asked them, “Why are you untying that colt?”
³⁴ And the disciples simply replied, “The Lord needs it.” ³⁵ So they brought the colt to Jesus and threw their garments over it for him to ride on.
³⁶ As he rode along, the crowds spread out their garments on the road ahead of him. ³⁷ When he reached the place where the road started down the Mount of Olives, all of his followers began to shout and sing as they walked along, praising God for all the wonderful miracles they had seen.
³⁸ “Blessings on the King who comes in the name of the Lord! Peace in heaven, and glory in highest heaven!”
³⁹ But some of the Pharisees among the crowd said, “Teacher, rebuke your followers for saying things like that!”
⁴⁰ He replied, “If they kept quiet, the stones along the road would burst into cheers!”

- In history this event is known as Palm Sunday, the Sunday before Easter, the day Jesus rode into Jerusalem before his crucifixion, it’s a significant day

- But what about the donkey?

- I believe God would say to all of us “untie the donkey”

- How many of you own a donkey? No one?

- That’s ok, our donkey is our gifts, talents, abilities and/or our resources

- We all have a donkey and it’s time we untied them

- It’s interesting, the phrase that Jesus instructs the disciples to use,
“The Lord needs it.”

- Does the God of heaven really need our donkey?

- The original language (the Greek) translation of that phrase is,
“The Lord of it has need.”

- In other words, the Lord of the donkey needs his donkey

- In other words, it’s God’s donkey not yours

- Great quote…

“Jesus doesn’t need what we have, in the sense that he cannot exist without that something, rather, he chooses to work alongside His creatures, using them for His glory.”

- So, like I said before, “untie the donkey”

- It’s God’s anyway

- That donkey is no good to anyone tied up

- Donkey’s are not the animal you own for show purposes (no show pony)

- They are a working animal

- All a tied up donkey will do is eat, rest, make a mess and smell

- But untie that donkey and it can get to work

- In this case, the work it was doing was carrying Jesus into the city of Jerusalem

- Your donkey, your gifts/talent/resource is no good to anyone tied up

- But untie it, give it to God and it can be put to great use, for his purposes

- In this story, Jesus challenges the ownership of the donkey

- Do you see the donkey as yours or God’s?

- Are they your talents, gifts and resources? Or are they God’s?

- Everything I have is from God

- Some of us need to make an adjustment in our head, remove the concept of, “It’s mine!”

- And replace it with, “It’s His.”

- Our natural response is to hold onto it, keep it to ourselves

- We won’t untie the donkey because we think we need it more than God

- Sometimes I will withhold my money because I don’t want to go without the thing I was planning to spend that money on

- But that sort of thinking puts limits on God

- And he cannot be limited

- I have found that the more I untie the donkey’s in my life, the more donkey’s he gives me

- Sometimes I go without for a season (it’s not always an instant thing)

- But in the long run, there is always more donkey’s

- The owner of the donkey could have held onto his donkey

- The bible says that the donkey had never been ridden before

- The owner was obviously saving it for something, had an intention for how it was to be used

- By letting the donkey go, he was actually letting go of what he intended to use the donkey for, the future plans he had for it

- The goals and dreams that were tied up with that donkey

- All of us have a plan on how we are going to use our donkey

- We’ve got it tied up waiting for the day we can put it into action

- Whether it be our resources, our talents and abilities

- But God’s plans and intentions are always above and beyond ours

- You can trust your donkey to God (after all, it is His donkey)

- And he has a magnificent plan for it

- No matter what your donkey looks like, God has a plan for it

- Sometimes we fall into the trap of thinking our donkey isn’t good enough to be used by God

- After all, it’s just a smelly donkey

- What could God do with that?

- In this story, the fact that Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey was very significant

- In bible times if a king rode into a city on a horse it meant war, but if a king rode in on a donkey it symbolized peace

- The donkey was the perfect choice for the reason why Jesus came

- Also, by riding into Jerusalem on a donkey Jesus fulfilled the prophecy of Zechariah 9:9 (NLT)Shout in triumph, O people of Jerusalem! Look, your king is coming to you. He is righteous and victorious, yet he is humble, riding on a donkey.

- So it was no accident that Jesus chose a smelly old donkey to make his grand entry

- The donkey was exactly what Jesus needed

- Don’t ever under estimate the value of your donkey

- Whatever it looks like, God has need of it

- What donkey have you got tied up that God wants you to untie?

- There is too much at stake to leave your donkey tied up

- God has need of it

- A donkey untied and used by God results in God being praised

- In this story, it says as Jesus rode in on the donkey, crowds gathered and began to praise him, began to declare the goodness of God

- God is glorified when we untie our donkeys and let him have control over them, over our talents, over our gifts, over our resources, over our lives

- His purposes are achieved through us as we give him control

- There is no greater feeling than to be used by God

- To see God at work

- When this happens, always remember its God who is to be praised

- The people didn’t come out that day to cheer the donkey

- They came to cheer and praise Jesus

- Always praise Jesus not the donkey

- Give God the glory not the talent, not the gift, not the resource

- God at work in us

- That’s the thing to celebrate and give the glory too

- Don’t fall into the trap of chasing the praise and accolades for your donkey

- That praise belongs to God

- It’s important to know that the same crowd that were praising Jesus that day were only a few days later shouting out that he put be put to death

- We also see that although most were praising God that day, there were some that were negative and criticized Jesus

- I think that whenever you step out for God and make a stand, whenever you untie your donkey and let God have control of your life, there will be some that criticize

- That’s OK, God is big enough to handle the criticism

- Not sure if you’ve noticed but God hasn’t stopped being God just because a few people have criticized him or said stuff about him

- He’s continued to be God

- He continues to be at work on the earth and in people’s lives

- And He continues to do that work through you and I

- His word for you today is, “Untie the donkey.”

- Your donkey may be the very thing that takes Jesus into your school, your family, your work place, your world

- Your donkey may be the very thing that God uses

- For the owners of this donkey, their donkey was the vessel that carried Jesus into Jerusalem

- Their donkey played a role in the single greatest event of all time

- And that is the moment when Jesus gave up his life for us

- Because of what Jesus did in those next few days, died on the cross and then rose from the grave to be lifted up to heaven

- Because of what Jesus did, our lives can be dramatically different

- Jesus died so that we can have life, he died so we can spend eternity in heaven

- The way we can receive this eternal life is by entering into a relationship with Jesus

- We invite Jesus into our world and start living for him

- For us to do this, we have to surrender control over our lives, and let God be in control

- The donkey in this case is our life

- We have to untie it, and give it to God

- Give our life to a higher purpose than just ourselves

- Maybe you’ve already given your life to Jesus…

- Examine your life, what donkeys have you got that are tied up?

- That donkey had never been ridden before Jesus rode it that day

- I believe there are donkeys in our world that are untested, never ridden before, never been given to God before

- Up until now we’ve kept them tied up

- Now is the time to “untie the donkey”

Father's Day

2010-09-06T17:01:00.000-07:00

Visibility is Credibility

Genesis 3:9

1. God didn't ask the woman where she was, but the man.

Your presence is powerful.
There is a position that God created the man to take up and remain in through difficulty.
"Adam, you are out of position when you hide" - even if it's to own up to a mistake.
Are you out of position? Working in the wrong field? Fighting the wrong battle? Looking for love and intimacy in the wrong places?
Good dads sustain, encourage, nurture, protect.
God's sustenence of us does not depend on our behaviour or how we receive the provision - He sustains what He creates because of His goodness as a father.

2. Don't withhold your heart from your children - be authentic, vulnerable and reassuring.

Your kids don't want perfection - they want reality, so they can adjust to life as it really is.
Malachi 4:6 - "He will turn the hearts of the Fathers to their children and the hearts of the children to their fathers."
Spiritual fathering is one of the greatest needs of today's generation - probably, Gen X is over entertained and under fathered.
A rebel doesn't have a father's heart to nurture him and doesn't have a son's heart either.
Christ and the church is your hope.
Boys, the way to manhood is to follow Jesus Christ.
Four wrong images the world shoves at you - gender benders, wimps, macho males, pretenders. Jesus wants you to initiate love, commit to a girl, unify your family, make some sacrifices, set an example, be authentic.
The curse of fathers and children not understanding each other is broken through tears.
Don't train leaders; raise up sons and daughters.

Conclusion:

Men, we are all "prodigal sons" who need to "come to our senses" and stop hanging out in the pig pen and eating slops and left overs. Return home to your heavenly Father. Live in His grace, forgiveness, acceptance and provision.
When a man returns to Christ and accepts His redemption, he returns to his rightful position in creation, living as a Son of God first, which releases him to be a father to others. Healing the brokeness of mankind and sustaining marriages, families, churches, communities and nations.

If The World Had No Pain

2010-08-30T23:24:00.000-07:00

"If the world had no pain, everyone would forget God and become selfish, which would cause lots of pain." - Mark Zaia

1 Peter 1:3-9, 18-20 (NIV) - 3Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade—kept in heaven for you, 5who through faith are shielded by God's power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. 6In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. 7These have come so that your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. 8Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, 9for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls. 18For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your forefathers, 19but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect. 20He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake.

1. Avoiding Pain - We make the mistake of thinking God's path won't have any pain and when it comes we grumble, but God comes into the fire with us, so that we can bear up and grow, and then minister to others.

2. Who You Will Become is Determined By What You Are Prepared to Face

You see people through the eyes of your own soul.
Soren kirkegard: "All men have a natural fear of making a mistake, by believing too well of a person. However the error of believing too ill of a person is not feared to the same degree."
Cynicism is often morally apathetic - it pulls down instead of building up
"Belief in Christ doesn't so much meet your needs, as it takes you out of yourself, to a place where you care about God and others. In that place, value and significance abound to you and your deepest yearning becomes fulfilled in a way that makes your previous needs seem less urgent and important. God is now free to fulfill those needs, because you aren't living unto them as your God. ["Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you"]

3. The Moral Dilemma of Suffering

Personally, I blame man, not God, for the suffering in the world.
Man goes his own way, without God, then blames God for the suffering that comes from his own sin.
The cross has never made sense to those people who can't see their own sinfulness. They are offended by its implications. But it makes good sense to those who humble themselves and admit that they fall short of what God requires. They ask God to save them and are astounded to realise that He still loves them and that He paid the ultimate cost in order to forgive them, and restore them to Himself.

Suffering is part of the journey - it "sucks" in our flesh, but can bring life to the soul if we walk with God through it.
None of us like it, we all struggle with it, but on the other side of it, there is fruit and a way that God uses it for good.

Four Keys To Overcoming

2010-08-25T23:43:00.000-07:00

^{Romans 7:18 - 8:2 (NIV)}
^{Romans 7:18}I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. ¹⁹For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. ²⁰Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.
²¹So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. ²²For in my inner being I delight in God's law; ²³but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. ²⁴What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? ²⁵Thanks be to God—through Jesus Christ our Lord!
So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God's law, but in the sinful nature a slave to the law of sin.

^{Romans 8:1}Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,^[b]²because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death.

1. Spread Your Foundations - God, family, church, friends, sewing, recreation, live to others, adventure, health, faith projects.

2. Fight Smaller Battles

Don't rate them so high
Ephesians 6: 10-18 (NIV) ¹⁰Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. ¹¹Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. ¹²For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. ¹³Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. ¹⁴Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, ¹⁵and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. ¹⁶In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. ¹⁷Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. ¹⁸And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.
7 Minutes with God for survival

1 Minute prayer for thanksgiving
4 Minutes reading the bible
2 Minutes intercession

3. Work On Your Desires

Psalm 37:4 (NIV) ⁴ Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.
The principle of First Things -

First part of the day to prayer
First day of the week to church
First part of income to God
First consideration of every decision to the Holy Spirit
Matthew 6:33 (NIV) ³³But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

4. Be Wise about who you bond to and who you separate from

Emotional attachments are foundational to life, but which ones bring health and which ones damage you?
Benefits of healthy attachments: good self esteem, morality, handling of stress, and adding meaning to your accomplishments.
A failure to bond leads to distorted, unbalance thinking.
How to bond: admit a need, move towards others, be vulnerable, allow for differences, negotiate the other persons defenses, be empathetic, listen to the Holy Spirit's guidance, say "yes" to life activities.